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(04/28/08 16:09:25)

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dear friends of daziedaze, please understand if daiziedaze is not herself the next few days, we lost her little dog buffy this afternoon, she was hit as they were leaving her mom's house. It will be a tough time for awhile in our house. Buffy was her best little friend when I was at work, and even when I was home. She just wanted you guys to know. Best to all. Mr. Daiziedaze.

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kohari

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(04/28/08 16:28:04)

oh, my gosh, i am so very sorry to hear about your baby dog..i lost my mama wolf 11 years ago, and even though i have her son, i still miss her so much. my thoughts are with you as you grieve buffy. if there is anything i can do, let me know. email if you want to talk on line.
sallyann

RMMommy

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(04/28/08 17:31:44)

Dearest Daizie, I'm so sorry to hear about your pup. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Julie

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(04/28/08 19:24:47)

Dazie,

I am so sorry about Buffy. I know exactly the shock and grief you are feeling, as I lost my Cyrus last July. It was so shocking and unexpected, just like Buffy. Please know I'll be praying for you. It will be really tough for a while, but I promise, it will get easier as time goes by. Eventually, it will hurt just a little less each day. It takes a while, though. You just have to go through the bad days and let yourself cry and rage as much as you need to. I'm here if you ever need to talk. Take care of yourself.

Hugs,

Jamie

Tania in Pennsylvania

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(04/28/08 20:28:04)

I'm so, so very sorry for your loss!! I have lost so many of my " babies" as well... I will keep you all in my prayers. I'm sure Heaven's light is shining a little brighter this evening. I believe animals go to Heaven and sit right beside God as advocates for their human families. Who better to tell God who we are then those who knew us best. They love unconditionally... always, and that is perhaps what charms us and prompts us to invite them into our world. My dog Lady was my sounding board and rock after my oldest daughter died. She just turned 15 years old, I do not know how much more time we will have together, but I am so greatful for her and all of the companions I have known. Every living being is a gift, and we are lucky to share our lives together. I know there really aren't words that will help right now...I'm so sorry...

Tania in Pennsylvania

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MASAJ225

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(04/29/08 02:51:59)

daze, I am so sorry for the loss of your little puppy!

Ms Mistoffelees

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(04/29/08 05:06:01)

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Awww, Daze, I'm so sorry.

I've not ever lost a furbaby to that particular type of accident, but I know it's one of my biggest fears, it can happen in a nanosecond. She's so cute and I know you miss her terribly. She's at the Rainbow Bridge, happy and playing with all of our beloved fur babies and waiting patiently to be reunited with you. Please know that we are thinking of you, sending you hugs and prayers. If you need to talk, please do, be it on the board or however, we'd all listen and commiserate. Like Jamie said, the devastation eases, eventually it will, have faith. Much love, hugs and prayers, my heart breaks for you.

Shelly

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(04/29/08 05:07:43)

My dear DD,

I am so very sorry.

Mr. DD,

Thanks for letting us know.

Hugs,

Bayley Rose

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(04/29/08 08:47:08)

Dzaie, I am so sorry! I lost my Clyde to a car, many years ago, and I know how much it hurts! I'm thinking of you!

de light

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(04/29/08 21:07:16)

Oh, that's terrible! It is so horrible to lose a pet that way! All you can do is know that you gave them the best home and the best life you could. Buffy was as lucky to have you as you were to have her, although I'm sure that is not what you want to hear right now.

ElizabethF

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(04/30/08 07:21:07)

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OMG, I am freaking out...I can't believe it!!! Dazie, I am so sorry....it is horrible to lose them, especially like that!!! Here is a poem that helped me...

BTW, there is a website that has a pet loss support group here.

RainbowsBridge.com

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

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Elizabeth

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(04/30/08 20:51:22)

Hey Dazie,

I'm thinking of you alot. I know how much it hurts. I can't believe it's been 10 months (today) that my Cyrus got hit by a truck. It was the most shocking thing I've ever endured. I was playing outside with him and literally 10 minutes later, he was gone. The Rainbow Bridge poem is beautiful and comforting, but I still can hardly read it without sobbing.

My thoughts are with you and you're in my prayers....

Jamie

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(05/01/08 05:52:17)

So very sorry for your loss, sweet friend! I know how that feels and it is devestating. Please know you are in my prayers.

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ElizabethF

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(05/01/08 07:06:08)

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Jamie, I know. I was deeply upset by Dazie's news. I can't stop thinking about it either. It is so traumatic to lose a pet. I lost Pun'kin years ago and I am still not over it. I guess I never will get over it. I try not to think about it...I see that little picture of her beloved doggie on her posts and it kills me! And she is such a good friend to us, it is hard to think of what she is going through (esp. for those of us like you and me, who have had hard pet losses also.)

I know what you mean about the poem, it always makes me cry also! But it did help me when someone shared it with me when I lost Pun'kin.

Elizabeth

BudRose

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(05/01/08 07:52:32)

That's awful!

My shih-tzu, Chewy, is our child. I can't fathom what you must be going through!

Just know heaven's got a wonderful doggy for the angels to love!

rose

malar2002

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(05/01/08 08:04:36)

Dear Mr. Daziedaze, thank you for bringing this news of our beloved friend Dazie to us.

Dear Ms. Dazie, I am deeply sorry for your loss

Please be strong, Lady!

Malar

daziedaze

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(05/01/08 09:15:01)

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Hi everyone. Thank you so much for al the love that you are sending my way. I cant believe she is gone, silly dog liked to run across the street to sniff the Peredson';s pole .My 10 year old saw her first ; when I saw her I was hoping she she jwas just unconcious, They hit her little head she was gone instantly. I pickred her up I kissed her I love her I miss her so much. she was with me all the time its so hard not to have my little side kick/ I put her my flower bed, I planted some panseys because the little face's remind me of her, I miss her so much everytime I think I am out of tears I am not.
Eliza thank you so much for putting up the Rainbow bridge it hurts me to read it but its also cathratic, I know I will cry hard Monday the day it happened was really bad for me,I did know how I was going to sleep she slept with me in the crook of my arm, Tuuesday was no better, Wednesday came the rage, I knew it was a accident but why not stop just to say sorry? I wished a lot of bad juju on that person. Now its Thursday and I miss her so much. still crying,
Eliza Jamie Chris Ms M Malar Shelly BudRose Julie Baley De light Masaj Tania Sallyann Thanks I love ya all my wonderful beautiful cyber family

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daziedaze

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(05/01/08 09:30:36)

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Eliza thank you for guiding me to Chances spot!

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Freebird2424

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(05/01/08 13:53:38)

Hey Dazie,

Gosh, I just identify so much with how you're feeling. Buffy was absolutely precious!!! Was she a peke or a mix of peke? I'm glad you didn't have to witness her getting hit. It's bad enough to find them. Same thing happened with Cyrus - he got hit in the head and it killed him instantly. I know which truck killed him and the guy didn't even stop- even though three people (including my son) saw it happen. I can't imagine hitting someone's pet and not even stopping. Every time I see the guy, I just feel rage. I know it was an accident - Cyrus shouldn't have run out to chase the truck - but it still makes me fume. I also know how you're feeling without your sidekick - Cyrus wasn't a house dog (except during thunderstorms! LOL!), but I miss my kitty, Toby, like that. He slept with me and sat on my lap all the time for 16 years. I lost him in October. Losing my two best buddies has been a double whammy. But, I'm still kicking, and you will be too. Just trust that it will eventually get easier. But, it takes time. One day at a time. Hang in there! It helps to talk about it too.

Hugs,

Jamie

ElizabethF

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(05/02/08 07:33:07)

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Jamie is right, the only thing that helps is time. I know that helped me. Because it is such a huge blow, you can't get over it except from so much time passing that you forget how it was with them, somewhat. I am so glad I was able to enjoy that unconditional love, even if it was just for 14 years. I wish so much that our pets could live as long as us! It is so horrible to lose them!

Elizabeth

kathryn3

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(05/02/08 07:50:14)

I am so sorry for your loss..... what a tragic blow....I lost Gunner around when E lost Pun'kin and it was the worst pain.... Like E said, time makes you think about it a little less but I am still not over Gunner and when I think of him, I still get choked up.... I miss him so much and I always will...I really am sorry you have to go throught this as I would not wish this on my worst enemy. Please know that we are here for you esp. if you need to talk ... also visit petloss.com ... it really helped me to have a support group...

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